Bedtime has been a little tough, but we were caught by surprise when he had a complete meltdown in the afternoon while we were playing with his remote controlled car. He cried for over 45 minutes and couldn't be comforted. We were finally able to catch (through the translation app) that he wanted to go home. We felt so helpless and inadequate! He finally calmed down, thanks to some cartoons, and we were able to feed him dinner and then let him watch cartoons until he feel asleep. I remember in one of our trainings they said to be thankful for this as it means your child has formed previous attachments which would help them form attachments with us. Please pray that we would be able to comfort our son during these times of homesickness!
As James and I were talking later about everything that had happened, we realized that mama and baba are just names HouLiang knows for us. We all have some perception of what mom and dad mean based on our experiences with our parents growing up, but he has never had that. As we become a family, we hope he comes to associate mama and baba with unconditional love, comfort, acceptance, and security—just as our Heavenly Father provides these things for us.
So thankful for your connection and perspective on some of this hard stuff. Thanks for sharing the ups and the downs. We are praying for y'all!
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ReplyDeleteLaura "Mama"artin-Schadewald. I'm just glad you did not name Luke "NED".
ReplyDeleteGreat picture of baba and son =)
ReplyDeleteOh the transition is hard! Praying for wisdom and guidance for your family. Praying that God will comfort Luke's heart, and that he will know the love that you two have for him.
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